choices?

"If I could start my life all over again I would make the exact same choices that I made . I think I would make them because of the person that I am and the things that I have learnt my making those choices. I am proud of who I am !!!"

I was listening to this Bob Seager song, and a show girl made this statement in the end. It immediately caught my attention. "Stupid girl,she is in such a situation that would equally attract contempt and pity" I expressed discontent in half articulated voice. If I could turn back the hands of time, If I can go back, would I erase my wrong-doings, stupid acts of mine which caused me trouble, let me down or hurt people around. Well the proposition seems to be exciting.. to be honest I do fancy at times that if I could go back say n number of years I would have not committed certain acts of mine.. or would have done this or that..

But isn't it absurd, the things we do in life are like our experiences.They shape our character. The present me is a culmination of the teachings that life offered me because of my actions, so if the very me try to erase those experiences and try to fill them with better ones the lessons that life would have taught me would be of lesser importance..Or in other words, the events and the happenings in the life are not that important as what we become out of those. Our reaction to those happenings is of more importance then the event itself. Someone elsewhere said, if you loose don't loose the lesson..

So the next time you are in a situation where you are at unease just remind yourself what lesson you learnt and avoid learning the same lesson twice :)

...perhaps that show girl was right..I would have made the same exact choices as well...

don't know how relevant is that picture to the post, i saw a young boy selling some prints about the benaras city. There was not enough light to get a sharp picture, neither did he had time to pose.

love actually!!!

..its such a stupid sounding word for some and for others its much more than a word..People like me swivel in between. I am a fairly level headed guy not that much in and out of luv, attraction, fatalism, infatuation or whatever u'd like to name it.

I have seen all sorts of people.Some sensitized,some ignorant, some pretending to be simply not interested..but one thing that is so common amongst them all is the vulnerability to fall for some one..and that vulnerability had some relation with the persons priorities in life... so if u have nothing to and ur priorities in life are in a disarray u are more fallible..

Whatever we say, it is an intrinsic characteristic of all of us to get noticed.Get attention, love and get loved. So where is the problem? Well the problem arises when our expectations soar and the person at the receiving end fail to deliver.

But why do we expect, do we really luv or are we just being plain selfish. We being selfish and we don't even know that, or perhaps we don't want to accept that.

Relationships are such a funny thing. I mean its so different in case of humans. I remember when I was a kid I had a dog. I never had problems with him, I think he was not at all selfish. He may have sulked a few times..but owing to his characteristic brain, he suffered from selective amnesia and forgot all my wrong doings.

Humans are smarter, they have bigger memory and rich set of emotions. They keep things in store for future references. They link present situation with any experiences from the past and they never forget to include the bad experiences..

This pic, i posted there.. was clicked as I remembered mehndi hassan's Ghazal..
"अब के हम बिछडे तो शायद ख्वाबों मैं मिले कभी.. जिस तरह सूखे हुए फूल किताबों मैं मिले कभी.."
{if we get seperated then we will meet in our dreams..like we find dried flowers in the books#OMG - new age translator#}

But whatever i say.. Howsoever u criticize it.. its capable to give you and out of world experience!!! The overheads how ever are quiet high.. and if u are willing to pay the price.. u can take that plunge...